One of the main complaints that I have heard from men concerning their sexual relationship with their partner, is not getting oral sex. The issue seems to be that they are not having it as frequently as they would like or either not getting it at all from their mate. Surprisingly, this concern can cause a great deal of problems within a relationship if not discussed or acted upon. Some people will eventually branch out of the relationship just to get oral sex. We have all heard stories about certain stereotypes that do or do not choose to engage in oral sex. It is believed by some men that some women love participating in oral sex more than others. Be it lack of experience, frigidness, religious beliefs, or just feeling that your mate is just plain nasty down stairs, women continue to make all sorts of excuses to not go down on their mates. There is nothing dirty or bad about oral sex.
In fact, oral sex can be the most satisfying part of your sexual encounter.Mutually performing oral sex on one another as your foreplay will undoubtedly lead to a much more satisfying climax for you both. Now, the main issue with performing a blowjob on your man is that you must feel confident that you know what you are doing in order to enjoy it. A lot of women think that it is just licking on his penis for a couple of quick strokes like an ice cream cone and your job is done. You think that the minimal effort you just provided him is suppose to have put him in either heavenly bliss, or ready to move on to do you. Or that it was so good that he won't be expecting to get it again for a while.It takes a lot more than that to perform a memorable blow job for your man, that will keep him satisfied, and his mind on you through out the day.
First of all you need to invest the time into an open conversation with him to discuss exactly what turns him on. Is it that he likes it stroked while you are licking and sucking him, the twisting and rotating of your hands while you are working it in your mouth, or having his balls licked and tea bagging. Once you are aware of what he likes, you have a basis of doing your homework and research, to find out what you should be doing and how to do it...correctly. Secondly,the pleasure for you is pretty much all mental. You must indulge your mind into thinking the most knotty and freakiest things you have ever imagined while you are blowing him. Having a kinky mind is very favorable if you plan to ever fully enjoy yourself in a sexual relationship. Being able to truly get in touch with your sexuality and being able to enter into the fantasy side of yourself is key.Thinking to yourself while you are pleasing him orally all kinds of hot and sexy thoughts should no doubt be turning you on with excitement, and he should sense this.
Thinking that he is your master and its your duty to make him feel good. Telling yourself that he controls you, and he's forcing you to please him, and that your not allowed to stop until he says so can be extremely hot and arousing. But, in any case, do what you have to in your mind to get you to a hot, horny exciting place. If this means that you must imagine yourself with Leonardo De Caprio or Brad Pitt...do it! Lastly,cleanliness is next to godliness. Make certain to be open enough to discuss hygiene. Tell him that it is important to get you to loving it by him being Dieseled cologne down and smelling super fresh down there. Once you know how to take yourself to your zone when doing a blowjob, you may come to find that the sweaty ball scent actually makes you even hotter. Take it to another level by using sweet treats from the fridge that you love to suck on.Watch X-rated flicks together and learn what he likes and how to do it. Get hot, get horny, and don't be shy..be kinky!
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