You Are So Wonderful Now Show Them!

The top ten list of the saddest things in the world does not truly give the number one issue. In fact, the number one thing that should be on that list is hidden from you at great lengths and expense. It is a powerful thing that we all possess. Regretfully underestimated and drastically overlooked. What is this powerful tool that can cause any human being to completely turn his life and circumstances around within a matter of seconds? That has the ability to change his or her life for ever?It is the power of Creativity! What you have inside of you is all that you need to be happy,healthy, successful,and free. Creativity allows you to be free. Free from the chains that bind us into believing we need to have stressful corporate positions,long daily commutes, absence from our families and loved ones,large mortgages,dangerous medications and costly treatments. I know this may sound cliche but it is not! It is the hidden truth. Once you have tapped into your own personal creativity and found out that it is you and you alone that is in charge of your finances, love life, successes and failures, you will then be able to look in the mirror each day with great confidence and smile at yourself! Knowing that it is your hidden talents that make you successful at your job and not the job itself at all. No one controls your destiny. No one controls your happiness. No one controls your future but you.

Everything happening in your life right now is only as bad as you are IMAGINING it to be. You see, thoughts are extremely POWERFUL. If you are thinking that things are so desperate and bad...then so it is. If you change your thinking you change your life! If you look at things in a different view...instantly the situation changes for you...POWERFUL! People just do not realize how much power they truly have over all things. A corporation or job does not control happiness, health or success. You do. Become a creative being and search yourself for your talents and use them to create and become who you really are...a creative happy being. All the successful businesses in which most are employed, are successful because they began with a creative idea. Some individual concept or thought that an executive put out into the universe and made it happen for himself. Next, he employed you. Once again, being a creative being, he decided to continue that success on a "worker bee's" tired feeble back. Once we become worker bees we automatically stop creating for ourselves.

We become trapped in a every day 9 to 5 routine of maintaining a mediocre life style designed to rob you of your creativity. Think about it. Would the pharmaceutical corporations want you happy and joyful working from home, never becoming ill or sick from stress or depression? To no longer need their many medications for what ales you? Would the automobile repair shop be happy if you didn't bring in your car for yet another brake job or a new set of tires, because you no longer are using it to commute to work for 4 hours a day? How about the grocery chain giants? Would they appreciate having all their heavily saturated pesticide and insecticide produce going bad, because you are smart enough to grow your own pure fruits and veggies in your own backyard? And even more so...now have the time to do it! Yes, creativity in the wrong hands can undoubtedly become a dangerous thing to a fast paced economic, technologic and greedy corporate society.

But if one dares to think outside the box, a magical thing happens. Doors begin to open. Opportunities that were never there before begin to suddenly arise. At last, because of you, new books are written, new songs are sung, new business are opened, new technology is now available. You are able to travel when you would like too. You are no longer in debit to anyone.You are able to spend invaluable time with loved ones. Finally, you realize how amazingly wonderful you are! Now the world makes sense. We truly understand why we are here...to co-create, remain healthy, happy and experience infinite joy on a daily basis. Why have you been settling for anything less?

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Men and "The Change"...?

     It is said that many men will enter into the notorious "midlife crisis" stage, at an untimely point in his loved one's lives. There appears to be many points of view in terms of what may or may not bring on this transitional state for a man. Some professionals feel that it has nothing to do with the males age, but more to do with the age of his significant other. A woman who reaches the menopausal age can trigger her man to enter into his midlife crisis. The reason stated for this is that, when the woman marks her inability to reproduce, it will naturally set off a need in her mate, to seek out younger women who are able to reproduce. This is irregardless to the fact that he may desire children or not. There comes a desire to have a woman who is fertile. and needs to be protected from other male predators.
     Another theory, is that a man is driven by challenges and a need for constant activity in order to feel whole, happy, and content. For this reason, often times we will commonly here of men with high paying technical careers and salaries, walk away from there jobs and take up playing a musical instrument or join a band. He may feel a need to go out on a whim and purchase a red hot sexy sport car for the soul purpose of attracting a younger hot sexy woman. It may spark a sudden interest in his appearance. You may notice he will begin to dress in a different style of men's clothing, purchase exercise equipment and begin working out regularly, or shave his head bald.
     Men that are no longer feeling as if they are contributing in a positive way will become resentful of there partners and pull completely away from them. At this point it may seem there is absolutely nothing that there mate can do right in there eyes. The children will also suffer during this change in their father's lives. Often times it could end in a separation or divorce. A guy may suddenly feel that he no longer chooses to be married, and that he is very unhappy at home. Statics do show that most men who decide to part from the home never actually "find"  or "discover" themselves, and spiral into a much unhappier life than they had previously.
     Because a lot of men are smart enough to realize that it may not be the best case scenario to just pack up and leave, some do stay and try to work through their sudden emotional state of mind with their partners. It may be in the best interest of the family to make some drastic changes in order to keep the unit in tact. Perhaps a career change, playing the bass guitar in a gig, or pursuing a life long dream business could be just what the doctor ordered. And undoubtedly, it is not much of a sacrifice if it in saves the relationship, and all comes together for the greater good. In this instance everyone wins.
     It all boils down to communication and sacrifice. Whether you decide to part your separate ways in order to seek happiness, or hang in there to truly understand the other persons deli ma, happiness should be your ultimate goal. There is nothing fair about forcing an individual to live in an unhappy environment. It is quite a tall tale to believe that you can marry someone and plan to live and stay together forever in sickness and in health. People should expect change,evolving, growing,failure and the possibility that your mate could become the worst being on the planet eventually. Having an open mind when entering into a relationship allows for honesty, growth and self improvement for everyone involved.
 

How to enjoy a blow job with your man...finally!

One of the main complaints that I have heard from men concerning their sexual relationship with their partner, is not getting oral sex. The issue seems to be that they are not having it as frequently as they would like or either not getting it at all from their mate. Surprisingly, this concern can cause a great deal of problems within a relationship if not discussed or acted upon. Some people will eventually branch out of the relationship just to get oral sex. We have all heard stories about certain stereotypes that do or do not choose to engage in oral sex. It is believed by some men that some women love participating in oral sex more than others. Be it lack of experience, frigidness, religious beliefs, or just feeling that your mate is just plain nasty down stairs, women continue to make all sorts of excuses to not go down on their mates. There is nothing dirty or bad about oral sex.
In fact, oral sex can be the most satisfying part of your sexual encounter.Mutually performing oral sex on one another as your foreplay will undoubtedly lead to a much more satisfying climax for you both. Now, the main issue with performing a blowjob on your man is that you must feel confident that you know what you are doing in order to enjoy it. A lot of women think that it is just licking on his penis for a couple of quick strokes like an ice cream cone and your job is done. You think that the minimal effort you just provided him is suppose to have put him in either heavenly bliss, or ready to move on to do you. Or that it was so good that he won't be expecting to get it again for a while.It takes a lot more than that to perform a memorable blow job for your man, that will keep him satisfied, and his mind on you through out the day.
First of all you need to invest the time into an open conversation with him to discuss exactly what turns him on. Is it that he likes it stroked while you are licking and sucking him, the twisting and rotating of your hands while you are working it in your mouth, or having his balls licked and tea bagging. Once you are aware of what he likes, you have a basis of doing your homework and research, to find out what you should be doing and how to do it...correctly. Secondly,the pleasure for you is pretty much all mental. You must indulge your mind into thinking the most knotty and freakiest things you have ever imagined while you are blowing him. Having a kinky mind is very favorable if you plan to ever fully enjoy yourself in a sexual relationship. Being able to truly get in touch with your sexuality and being able to enter into the fantasy side of yourself is key.Thinking to yourself while you are pleasing him orally all kinds of hot and sexy thoughts should no doubt be turning you on with excitement, and he should sense this.
Thinking that he is your master and its your duty to make him feel good. Telling yourself that he controls you, and he's forcing you to please him, and that your not allowed to stop until he says so can be extremely hot and arousing. But, in any case, do what you have to in your mind to get you to a hot, horny exciting place. If this means that you must imagine yourself with Leonardo De Caprio or Brad Pitt...do it! Lastly,cleanliness is next to godliness. Make certain to be open enough to discuss hygiene. Tell him that it is important to get you to loving it by him being Dieseled cologne down and smelling super fresh down there. Once you know how to take yourself to your zone when doing a blowjob, you may come to find that the sweaty ball scent actually makes you even hotter. Take it to another level by using sweet treats from the fridge that you love to suck on.Watch X-rated flicks together and learn what he likes and how to do it. Get hot, get horny, and don't be shy..be kinky!


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Top TEN REASONS MEN CHEAT

Top TEN REASONS MEN CHEAT

1. Not getting oral sex from you

2. Not geting enough sex from you

3. No more thrill or excitement with you, boring

4. You let your self go and no longer attractive

5. You complain every time he wants you

6. You put him last in your life

7. You display a lack of trust, appreciation, admiration and validation for him

8. Not willing to fullfil fantasy's,try anal or salad tossing

9. You allow it...over and over instead of packing

10. He has found out that you are cheating

TOP TEN REASONS WOMEN CHEAT

TOP TEN REASONS WOMEN CHEAT
Lack of attention at home.
No longer feels appreciated.
No more Romance.
You are no longer affectionate.
Failed communication.
A lack of hygiene.
Physical up keep.
The need for compliments.
Just have sex never make love.
You never said I Love you.

Is Sex Before Marriage Expected By The Man?

Undoubtedly,you can bet your bottom dollar...yes. Now there are however some exceptions to every rule, but travel to Russia, London, Chicago and back to where the deer and the antelope play and you will find yourself on your back before the wedding ring!I recall being told in my dating years by a gentlemen, and I use the term loosely, that this is a "try before you buy society!"And with that statement I guess I was supposed to be inspired with great desperation to strip naked, grab a couple pillows, and the whip cream and pick a position. Unfortunately for him I held myself to very high standards, and kindly replied,"well I am not a shoe, and you won't be trying me on for size!" I mean seriously, if we were to allow every Toms Harry Dick to give it uh whirl, the Guinness Book of World Records would serve no purpose. In most instances it does not work out this way. The new age, 21st century women today are not holding out for marriage and instead opting for HPV shots and various risky cancer causing birth control methods.
Women seem to be more open with there sexuality and willing to be the victim or the aggressor. Often times women feel that they are "the one", and that they wear a "super cape" around their vagina, and its going to be so different from the last women, that the guy is going to be so turned out and motivated,that he'll sweep her off her feet, marry her, and live happily ever after. So many women make the mistake of thinking they can change a man and the situation. In hindsight all that we women really should be changing is our mind in regards to our self worth. WHAT DO YOU THINK???

Is It Wrong To Date A Married Man Who Is Planning To Leave His Wife?

NO. I say date him till the cows come home. Now, its a different story if this "dating" continues on for quite sometime and he is continuously handing you excuse after excuse while interacting,visiting, assisting and in most cases sleeping with the soon to be infamous X. You gotta use some common sense when it comes to men and their penis's. Most guys want who they want and how they want them. And if your not careful, soon it won't matter what you want. Nine times out of ten if its you he is after and you are into him, it won't take much for you to be there right along with him. You need to put on your big girl panties and THINK. When the good out weighs the bad then its probably worth the trouble and heart aches that come along with this type of relationship. But bottom line is you get what you pay for. If he knows he's up to no good and has no intention of leaving his current wife, he will probably have no problem with paying you for it. Which is exactly what could end up happening to you. His payments will come in the form of gifts, wining and dinning you,getaways and hotels. Usually, before you least expect it you find your self lying down on a sofa telling your perils to a perfect stranger at the rate of $200 an hour. HOW DO YOU SEE IT?

Do Wives Have A Duty To Have Sex Routinely With Their Spouse?

A lot of men I pity. I gravel with disgust at all the sexy, hot and horny men in holy matrimony, that must go to bed with a big fat woody nightly, because their loving wives have said "NO" to sex. "Not tonite hunny bunny, maybe tomorrow if i'm feeling up to it after I get home from juniors water balloon filling contest." "And you know I just got my hair done silly!" "Let's wait till the weekend, my hair should be all sweated out by then." Why do you tolerate this men? For the sake of tying the knot with your sweetheart, who is no longer sweet when time to meet. From a biblical stand point, the Bible says that a man and wife should deny one another but for a season(ie;your cycle), and that your body belongs to the other.It says that the wedding bed is undefiled, meaning that he is welcome to try and or do everything with you. Did you not discuss this before your bridal dress shopping extravaganzas. Before your many many sessions of sex before marriage? Are all married woman oblivious to the fact,that after becoming married, your man is going to desire you repeatedly because you are now his property. That he will be expecting sex from you repeatedly because he has given up having sex with the other women that you have chased out of his life. How selfish we women can become after tricking a man into a marriage. Yes tricking. If you knew your libido was not up to par with your guy and you were faking it you were tricking him. If you knew you were not really attracted to him but you married him you tricked him. If he can't get you turned on and excited enough to enjoy yourself with your husband then you tricked him. If you knew you were just looking for security and to have children you tricked him. If you constantly throw the kiddies in bed between you and your husband to avoid sex at night then you tricked him. If you are neglecting your husbands needs and putting the children and all there activities ahead of him,sorry... you are neglectful and being deceptive. Plan and simple...think about it.
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Why Do Women Stay With Men Who They Know Have Cheated On Them?

I have come to know many women who have landed themselves in some of the most unhealthy relationships for a lack of better words, than I have teeth. And fortunately,I am no where near close for dentures. I have been an ear to some of the most unbelievable perils, that only a horror film director could appreciate knowing.Usually, it all starts out the same old story. A woman meets a guy and immediately opens up to soon, and tells her life story.She reveals her wants, needs, desires,heartaches, financial situation, and that she holds the deed to grandma's bakery. Now, any untrustworthy gent that sits and listens to this hefty list, will naturally plan to stick around to see how things pan out for him. On the other hand, a guy with good intentions would automatically be turned off by the candor, and think of you as some sort of wacko. A woman will undoubtedly come off as mentally unstable if she unveils every boring detail about her life in one sitting. Most women make the costly mistake of looking for Mr. Right each time they are out seeking entertainment. Just for a moment, imagine how scary it must be, for Larry, who is just looking for a good time,who runs into Sherry, who is ready to marry.How is it possible to leave your house in a little black dress with 5 inch heels and a scarf, intent on shopping for a soulmate? It is not going to happen. A person should be going out with the intentions of nothing more than enjoying a night out on the town. In the event you meet someone special, things will roll along a lot more smoothly if you are not on the look out. A man will pick up on this desperation. And you will find yourself in a relationship that takes you no where but to buy more boxes of kleenex. Once a woman has filled her closet with tons of sexy women's clothing,matching purses, designer shoes, and tons of jewelry, it seems the only thing left to buy is a man. And some women wind up doing just that. It does not require rocket science to figure out when you have indeed attracted the wrong partner. There are always warning signs in the beginning stages that spell out disaster. Why some women choose to ignore these signs is no mystery. Yes we have heard that a woman who had an absent father tends to be more promiscuous. And that a woman who suffered abuse growing up will attract that same dysfunctional behavior in a her relationships. However, once burned you should learn from your mistakes. Far too many women spend far to much time worrying about getting married and having children. The focus needs to be on self-growth and self-achievements in order to feel good about yourself. To bring value into your relationship. Which in turns provides for mutual respect, honor, loyalty and commitment. A woman needs to first individually find herself, know her value and boost her self-esteem before entering into a relationship. When we are in a relationship with someone we should be adding to that other person's life, not taking away and subtracting. A lot of women make the mistake of trying to save or change a broken man. They tend to make the mistake of becoming his mother and thus enabling him. When the inevitable comes, cheating, abandonment, theft, beatings and all other sorts of violence, a woman finds herself trapped behind a wall of loneliness, confusing, immaturity, and desperation.Having a need to hold on to the only thing she falsely believed validated her.For this reason women continuously endure the hardships of broken hearts to broken bones.Emptied out bank accounts and STD's.And when it is all said and done, the very thing they thought their relationship was supplying them, will be the very thing that can destroy them.


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Manscholar 4U Ladies: HOW TO PLEASE YOUR MAN SEXUALLY....without fail! PART l

Manscholar 4U Ladies: HOW TO PLEASE YOUR MAN SEXUALLY....without fail!

Sexy greetings to all you beautiful ladies! You ARE worth the time and your weight in gold. Always know that. Now, first off, we have all heard numerous times and read millions of places that a way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Do not take that statement lightly, or as a myth. It is 100% accurate and so true. Ladies, ladies, ladies, I can not stress to you enough the importance of learning to cook for your man. I do not care how horrible things are on the flip side of life, you have got to feed your honey. And i'm talking Shake n bake not out of a box or can. This is one of those things where if you don't...some other woman IS! Before you want to even advance into the sexual issues, you have got to understand how first filling his belly with a delectable home cooked meal is going to delight him with so much appreciation and admiration for you that he won't be able to notice your other flaws in the sexual department.

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What Lengths A Cheating Heart Will Go...

Police: Colorado Springs man reports woman at his home as a burglar after girlfriend shows up
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By Associated Press, Published: October 26

COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. — Colorado Springs police say a man’s girlfriend unexpectedly came home just before another woman was due to visit, so he called police to report his new acquaintance as a burglar.

The Gazette reports (http://bit.ly/vfcH8c ) that 24-year-old Kevin Gaylor was cited with a misdemeanor of false reporting to authorities.

Police say Gaylor had invited a woman he met online to come to his home after 3 a.m. Wednesday so they could get better acquainted, but his girlfriend came home first.

Police say that when the other woman arrived, Gaylor called police and falsely reported an intrusion.

Gaylor has an unlisted phone number and couldn’t be reached for comment.

Copyright 2011 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

Is He Cheating On You?

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Of course there are no absolutes. There are definetly some guys out there who are blessed to be endowed with all the self confidence, self fulllillment, spirtuality, morales, self respect and loyalty that cheating would never ever be an option for them. Hats off to you beautiful beings. However, there are various reasons/ excuses a man might claim for cheating. Truthfully, there is one that I DO NOT condone, but I can sympathize with. A man is visual, and when we women let ourselves go...it is an undue and unanticipated life sentence for a man. How selfish it is to expect that another human being deserves and should tolerate that. (till death do you part?)Also, most of the cheating goes on with women who are well aware of these men being in other relationships. Which again falls back on us ladies and our actions...
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New Apple iPhone 4S Plays Key Detective In Divorce?

Not sure if this will hold up in divorce court, but a suspicious husband has claimed that he caught his wife cheating using the new (well at least to iOS users, Android peeps have had this since day 1) Find my Friends (FMF) app that works with the iPhone 4S.

Much like Latitiude on the Android platform, FMF allows users to find their friends using the GPS location generated by their iPhones. The man in question gave his wife an iPhone 4S as a surprise, then used it to track where she was.

According to texts he received from his wife, she claimed to be in the meat packing district ( I'll say!) of New York, but FMF had her pegged in the Upper East Side, the total opposite direction. The husband claims that this confirmed some suspicions about his spouse cheating with someone uptown. The husband posted all this to the MacRumors forum, so the story cannot be totally confirmed, but it is an illustration of how much info mobile devices can give out.

There have been dozens of stories about people have tracking victims down using the geotag in a picture or a text, or how houses have been robbed when someone has posted to Facebook that they have gone out for the day and their address is in their public profile.

Information privacy is already a huge issue, and with social networking expanding the electronic umbrella over your life, steps need to be taken to ensure that personal info is not getting into the wrong hands.

FMF has some settings inside of it like Latitude that allows you to give only a city-level location to a friend. Meaning if you are in Boston, they will see that you are in the general vicinity of the city, not your exact location. There is also a cool addition that is specific to the iPhone that allows users to share their location for a one time event, meaning that you can give someone your location for a set amount of time, which is pretty handy.Especially for this wife in the market for a quickie!

It will be interesting to see if the husband in this story will post any outcomes or results. Until then, make sure you know what you are sharing!

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Your Place or mine?

Is it improper for a woman to invite a gentlemen over to her home for a good home cooked meal every now and then. Perhaps a late night cocktail? An opportunity to have some good conversation  and un-wind or just cuddle up for a movie and be held? It would seem not. Typically, a woman would be "askn for it" or considered looking for a booty call in any of the above cenarios. Where as if  a guy offered any of the above invitations to a female...we would find him charming, be deeply flattered and he would earn big points! Double standard? 

Don't Ask Don't Tell..."are you serious right now?"

Why would anyone in the military feel that a person who openly admits that they are gay purposes the need for some cause of action. Are we that shallow or in the closet our selves? Hiding and not acknowledging a fact that each of us is aware of. Not recognizing that the very guy standing next to you in that shower naked just may be gay as well, and checking you out on the sly. Only difference is he was selfish enough to keep it to himself. 

PLEASE DON'T DIVORCE ME BECAUSE I'M FAT...

i LOVE YOU! BUT DO YOU "LOVE" ME? Good question. Well all I can say is the same old thing that you have viewed as an "EXCUSE" for remaining a porker for the last 5 years..."CHILDBIRTH and STRESS". Why is it that we woman gain the weight to bear the children, but after pregnancy if we don't get that weight back off we loose your interest because of the bulge. Why is it that your negative comments about being "FAT NOW" cause us so much stress that we tend to adapt a lifestyle of emotional eating but you get to remain thin and sexy for the next 23 year old replacement wife. Its not fair!!! Be Supportive Please if you want me "THIN" again...
-Anonomys

When does a woman's reason for her "baby fat" become her excuse?

A woman must face many challenges in her life. A Marriage, career, education and childbirth just to name a few. It is obvious that when the time comes for a couple to decide to bring a child into this world, the woman must bear the burden. We say burden due to the unavoidable changes in which she will encounter in the up and coming months of pregnancy. No doubt her beautiful, attractive, an curvaceous physic will be stretched, tweaked and moved far away from the mound of perfection. And her mood will change as swiftly as the weather. Her desires for intimacy begin to become that loving supportive husbands worst nightmare in most cases. The once blessed event idea can quickly turn into a multitude of deal breakers. Deal breakers that were never once thought of before nor considered. Now the beautiful bundle of joy is here alas! But wait... I'm fat. I'm postpartum. I'm miserable and depressed. I'm lonely now because you don't pay attention to me anymore dear (either spouse). Just how long shall or can a man wait before he is justified in commenting on his beautiful woman's weight. Should he forever hold his tongue although he is now unhappy with her new found size? Should he just go with the "you should love me for me" clique? Perhaps he may feel confident enough to tel her what he is feeling and suggest the pair start working out together. Some men may feel that the woman no longer cares about herself or she would lose the extra pounds expeditiously. Some may soon feel it is the perfect calling card to cheat. I often times see some of the most unhappy looking men pushing a stroller alongside someone he once must have been attracted to prior to starting a family. And I must admit...I do feel for them.