Men and "The Change"...?

     It is said that many men will enter into the notorious "midlife crisis" stage, at an untimely point in his loved one's lives. There appears to be many points of view in terms of what may or may not bring on this transitional state for a man. Some professionals feel that it has nothing to do with the males age, but more to do with the age of his significant other. A woman who reaches the menopausal age can trigger her man to enter into his midlife crisis. The reason stated for this is that, when the woman marks her inability to reproduce, it will naturally set off a need in her mate, to seek out younger women who are able to reproduce. This is irregardless to the fact that he may desire children or not. There comes a desire to have a woman who is fertile. and needs to be protected from other male predators.
     Another theory, is that a man is driven by challenges and a need for constant activity in order to feel whole, happy, and content. For this reason, often times we will commonly here of men with high paying technical careers and salaries, walk away from there jobs and take up playing a musical instrument or join a band. He may feel a need to go out on a whim and purchase a red hot sexy sport car for the soul purpose of attracting a younger hot sexy woman. It may spark a sudden interest in his appearance. You may notice he will begin to dress in a different style of men's clothing, purchase exercise equipment and begin working out regularly, or shave his head bald.
     Men that are no longer feeling as if they are contributing in a positive way will become resentful of there partners and pull completely away from them. At this point it may seem there is absolutely nothing that there mate can do right in there eyes. The children will also suffer during this change in their father's lives. Often times it could end in a separation or divorce. A guy may suddenly feel that he no longer chooses to be married, and that he is very unhappy at home. Statics do show that most men who decide to part from the home never actually "find"  or "discover" themselves, and spiral into a much unhappier life than they had previously.
     Because a lot of men are smart enough to realize that it may not be the best case scenario to just pack up and leave, some do stay and try to work through their sudden emotional state of mind with their partners. It may be in the best interest of the family to make some drastic changes in order to keep the unit in tact. Perhaps a career change, playing the bass guitar in a gig, or pursuing a life long dream business could be just what the doctor ordered. And undoubtedly, it is not much of a sacrifice if it in saves the relationship, and all comes together for the greater good. In this instance everyone wins.
     It all boils down to communication and sacrifice. Whether you decide to part your separate ways in order to seek happiness, or hang in there to truly understand the other persons deli ma, happiness should be your ultimate goal. There is nothing fair about forcing an individual to live in an unhappy environment. It is quite a tall tale to believe that you can marry someone and plan to live and stay together forever in sickness and in health. People should expect change,evolving, growing,failure and the possibility that your mate could become the worst being on the planet eventually. Having an open mind when entering into a relationship allows for honesty, growth and self improvement for everyone involved.
 

How to enjoy a blow job with your man...finally!

One of the main complaints that I have heard from men concerning their sexual relationship with their partner, is not getting oral sex. The issue seems to be that they are not having it as frequently as they would like or either not getting it at all from their mate. Surprisingly, this concern can cause a great deal of problems within a relationship if not discussed or acted upon. Some people will eventually branch out of the relationship just to get oral sex. We have all heard stories about certain stereotypes that do or do not choose to engage in oral sex. It is believed by some men that some women love participating in oral sex more than others. Be it lack of experience, frigidness, religious beliefs, or just feeling that your mate is just plain nasty down stairs, women continue to make all sorts of excuses to not go down on their mates. There is nothing dirty or bad about oral sex.
In fact, oral sex can be the most satisfying part of your sexual encounter.Mutually performing oral sex on one another as your foreplay will undoubtedly lead to a much more satisfying climax for you both. Now, the main issue with performing a blowjob on your man is that you must feel confident that you know what you are doing in order to enjoy it. A lot of women think that it is just licking on his penis for a couple of quick strokes like an ice cream cone and your job is done. You think that the minimal effort you just provided him is suppose to have put him in either heavenly bliss, or ready to move on to do you. Or that it was so good that he won't be expecting to get it again for a while.It takes a lot more than that to perform a memorable blow job for your man, that will keep him satisfied, and his mind on you through out the day.
First of all you need to invest the time into an open conversation with him to discuss exactly what turns him on. Is it that he likes it stroked while you are licking and sucking him, the twisting and rotating of your hands while you are working it in your mouth, or having his balls licked and tea bagging. Once you are aware of what he likes, you have a basis of doing your homework and research, to find out what you should be doing and how to do it...correctly. Secondly,the pleasure for you is pretty much all mental. You must indulge your mind into thinking the most knotty and freakiest things you have ever imagined while you are blowing him. Having a kinky mind is very favorable if you plan to ever fully enjoy yourself in a sexual relationship. Being able to truly get in touch with your sexuality and being able to enter into the fantasy side of yourself is key.Thinking to yourself while you are pleasing him orally all kinds of hot and sexy thoughts should no doubt be turning you on with excitement, and he should sense this.
Thinking that he is your master and its your duty to make him feel good. Telling yourself that he controls you, and he's forcing you to please him, and that your not allowed to stop until he says so can be extremely hot and arousing. But, in any case, do what you have to in your mind to get you to a hot, horny exciting place. If this means that you must imagine yourself with Leonardo De Caprio or Brad Pitt...do it! Lastly,cleanliness is next to godliness. Make certain to be open enough to discuss hygiene. Tell him that it is important to get you to loving it by him being Dieseled cologne down and smelling super fresh down there. Once you know how to take yourself to your zone when doing a blowjob, you may come to find that the sweaty ball scent actually makes you even hotter. Take it to another level by using sweet treats from the fridge that you love to suck on.Watch X-rated flicks together and learn what he likes and how to do it. Get hot, get horny, and don't be shy..be kinky!


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Top TEN REASONS MEN CHEAT

Top TEN REASONS MEN CHEAT

1. Not getting oral sex from you

2. Not geting enough sex from you

3. No more thrill or excitement with you, boring

4. You let your self go and no longer attractive

5. You complain every time he wants you

6. You put him last in your life

7. You display a lack of trust, appreciation, admiration and validation for him

8. Not willing to fullfil fantasy's,try anal or salad tossing

9. You allow it...over and over instead of packing

10. He has found out that you are cheating

TOP TEN REASONS WOMEN CHEAT

TOP TEN REASONS WOMEN CHEAT
Lack of attention at home.
No longer feels appreciated.
No more Romance.
You are no longer affectionate.
Failed communication.
A lack of hygiene.
Physical up keep.
The need for compliments.
Just have sex never make love.
You never said I Love you.